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Relationships are Harder Now,

Mon, 04 Jun 2012 09:47:10 -0400

Because conversations became texting, arguments became phone calls, feelings became subliminal messages online, sex became easy, the word “love” gets used out of context, insecurities have become your way of thinking, getting jealous became a habit, trust has been lost, cheating became an accident, leaving became the only option & being hurt became natural.

To love is to risk pain

Fri, 20 Apr 2012 10:03:00 -0400

To love is to risk pain – that is what society tells us, that is what everyone advises us when we get into a relationship. Is it like loving at your own risk? That can’t be. It should not always be like that. Why should we take risk? How come there is pain when in fact it is love? And what is the definition of pain in love?

I believe that healthy relationships need not to risk pain. There may be little misunderstandings, but not to the point of suffering too much from heartbreak. What I see wrong in some relationships why they fail to work out is the presence of little “self-centeredness.” I don’t know but that “little” selfishness does big things. Third parties, dishonesties, unfaithfulness and all the like come in here.

Let’s see what this “self-centeredness” has to cater for us.

Selfishness is thinking about your own. It’s “ME” time as defined. You may care about your partner, yes, but not enough to say that you really care for someone you are committed with. Once you are overwhelmed with this attitude, all the factors that may bring the relationship to a great failure may come in.

1. DISHONESTY – Always remember that being trusted is a greater compliment than being loved. Once you lie, you cheat - not just to your partner, but to yourself as well. Just think about how much can you tolerate the foolishness when you lie? I believe that when you are dishonest, you are weak. Mean everything you do and say it when you know that it is true.

2. THIRD PARTY – I guess, this is the most tempting crime. A lot of people get involved with this. They may have several reasons why they meddle with somebody else’s relationship, but still it is not right. Consciously or unconsciously, we are giving the caress to somebody else instead of rendering it to our partners.

Well I suppose dishonesty captures everything. It all starts with white lies, and everything grows. Third party has the unfaithfulness, infidelity, betrayal and all the other “deceitful” things you can do to your partner. Sum it up, and the root is “self-centeredness.”

I am not a pro when it comes to love talks, I am just bringing out what I think is the reason why heartbreaks exist. In order to avoid “risking pain in love” might as well be thoughtful enough. When you are in a relationship, you are not a single being anymore, you are two - brought together to be one. Give and take matters most.

One more point, the worst thing you can do to your partner aside from all these is when you hit her. That is just so unbecoming. And think about this, treat your partner as how you would want your Father treats your Mom.

SOBRA NA.

Thu, 19 Apr 2012 10:50:32 -0400

Having patience is just being good at hiding impatience.

Sat, 14 Jan 2012 21:40:40 -0500

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Sun, 11 Dec 2011 01:25:12 -0500

@ Residence Inn, Tagaytay.

“As with all politically lead governments, foreign...

Wed, 30 Nov 2011 10:16:00 -0500

“As with all politically lead governments, foreign investment is the slowest in the media section. Politicians are somewhat paranoid about the media but we still think it’s worthwhile.”
—Rupert Murdoch

Oligarchy has spread its roots on almost all forms of media including paper and television. This has created an environment in which everyone is afraid of someone. Money controlling everything, time being manipulated by various variables in which human hands shouldn’t meddle, everything negative about politics, economy, health, civic welfare and the like are being hidden and shadowed by false proclamations of how we are steadily developing; I personally welcome you to the 20^th century. The century of deception and manipulation, in which media is the hero and restrained by the chains of evil; Evil being composed of politics, economy, health, civic welfare, and the like.

In reliance with the quote stated above, ours is very underdeveloped and we are the perfect contender for everything it states. The only force that beckons with truth in our world is the media. Disagree? Well, even the church has its own issues, specifically here in the Philippines. How redundant is it that the Bishops; the role models of Christ himself, need SUVs to travel when in fact Jesus taught us to sacrifice and offer our pains to the Lord Almighty. How is sitting inside a Mitsubishi Montero offer graces and sacrifices to show hope and radiate faith for the people? The media is being concealed with threats and degradations to combat the exposing of truths and facts. In my opinion, this began during the Marcos presidential reign, Now, it has achieved its maturity in the Aquino Administration, wherein foreign analysts are even the ones opening the eyes of dumbfounded “Pinoys” who support everything the government dictates them. ABS-CBN network, the mainstream, stereotype, common, whatever you may call them, hosts most of the Filipino audience when it comes to viewing their TV shows. They are the most tuned upon station, in which a single news flash spreads as fast as nerve impulses when encountering pain and pleasure. They have this power of manipulation, as shown by their optimistic news every day, only to be contradicted by the newspaper and other rival stations. The Aquino Administration controls ABS-CBN. What seems to be broadcasted on channel 2; sometimes it’s too good to be true. They say that our economy is booming and foreign investors are once again gaining interest on investing in our prime businesses. But hasn’t anyone noticed that it is only channel 2 who shows these kinds of news? On GMA network, they focus on news that seems to be negative, but sadly, it is really the truth. In turn, most of us believe that we are really developing; leading to more indolence and sloth. These two are the main ingredients that make oligarchy happy. With our current media manipulation, the rich become richer and the poor become poorer.

Us stubborn Filipinos believe everything we see and everything the government tells us. The media is their megaphone, and we are to listen. Honestly speaking, Channel 2 isn’t bias. Nor does it support any firms. It has surpassed the level of being bias and inclinations. It is already owned by the oligarchs, powered by the government, notarized by prominent people in society, and fed to us gently like feeding a baby. What we do not know, we are being fed with lies and rotten things coated with candy sprinkles and whipped cream. Anything that is against the government will die in a subtle manner, especially the media. Now, what we have are evangelists who know the truth but cannot speak. If they are to speak, if they are to let everyone know, if they are to uncover the truth, bullets will meet them. This is how underdeveloped our media is. Not only in the sense of economic but, it already penetrated the manner of morale and justice.

The relationships that argue a lot...

Wed, 30 Nov 2011 01:29:56 -0500

abigaillx:

Usually last the longest.

Why do I say that? Because they both have their own opinion(s). The way they look at things, the way they understand each other, makes the relationship stronger. This may not be the case in every relationship, but if you know how to understand your partner, it’ll last. I prefer having a tough relationship instead of a ‘go with the flow’ relationship. Why? Because we’re not afraid of disagreeing with each other.

I second to that. :)

Gusto ko yung relasyon namin, yung tipong pag tumingin sila ng pictures namin dati, masasabi nalang nila: "Ang bata pa nila dito, iba pa itsura nila."

Tue, 29 Nov 2011 10:09:00 -0500

Isn’t it sweet? Inabutan na kayo ng pagtanda niyo na kayo padin yung magkasama. Nakita niyo na yung pagbabago ng mukha niyo sa tagal ng pagsasama niyo. Pero di niyo yun napapansin kasi ang alam niyo lang, masaya kayong magkasama. :’)

Tapos isang araw babalik balikan n’yo nalang lahat yan at aalalahanin n’yo nang nangyari noong mga araw na yun.

Kung pwede lang tayo na yung magdecide para sa Future natin e. :)

Visit and Shop!♥

Tue, 29 Nov 2011 08:46:49 -0500

Visit and Shop!♥

Pag nakakakita ‘ko ng ganyan, sumasaya yung puso ko,...

Tue, 29 Nov 2011 07:48:27 -0500

Pag nakakakita ‘ko ng ganyan, sumasaya yung puso ko, Siryoso. :’)

It’s weird how relationships have developed from being...

Tue, 29 Nov 2011 06:29:00 -0500

It’s weird how relationships have developed from being strangers, meeting for the first time, falling in love, breaking up, and ultimately becoming strangers, again.

I’ve probably watched this a dozen times and still crying everytime.

But still, I do not believe everything happens this way, I do not believe our relationship will happen according to this sort. People get together, and become strangers again. Life goes on. Just be thankful :)

IN THE NAME OF LOVE ♥ My first attempt of making Wicked Oreos....

Mon, 28 Nov 2011 22:10:39 -0500

IN THE NAME OF LOVE ♥

My first attempt of making Wicked Oreos.

Last Saturday, before goin’ home Me and Denis decided to go to Makati SuperMarket to buy ingredients for our Wicked Oreos. (Pancake Mix, Vanilla Ice cream, Oreos, Eggs and butter)

I was able to do it last night and it was successful, Yay! :) I’m always trying to look something new everyday for my Honeybunny. I know, he likes it so much. E pano ba naman, kapag gusto niyang pinagluluto ko s’ya, palagi nalang Eggs and Hotdogs, minsan naisip ko nauumay na s’ya pero sinasabi niya pading “The best ang fried Eggs na gawa mo.” Pero, kinikilig padin ako. Haha Kiddin’ :P But seriously, I was quite nervous while doing this wicked shit, e kasi laging nasusunog e :| Actually, more than 20 pieces yung nagawa ko. At ‘yan lang yung six na maganda yung istura. Plus, I sprinkled candies and mallows on top for it to look nice and delicious.

Iba pala nagagawa ng Love, no? Dati ayaw na ayaw ko ng mga ganitong trabaho e, tamad na tamad ako. Tsaka ‘bat kailangan ako pa gumawa? Andyan naman si Mommy, db? Pero dahil love na love kita lahat gagawin ko. ♥

Her eyes don't light up when she hears your name anymore. She doesn't get chills when you walk by and her heart doesn't race when you smile at her. You don't get to her like you used to. You're just a bad memory in the back of her mind. So don't be surprised next time you make your way past her and she doesn't even glance your way. And don't bother trying to talk to her, you wont get a response. She's over fighting the same losing battle. The saddest part is that you have no one to blame but yourself. She gave you every chance you could ask for. And you fucked up every time. Now she walks around with nothing but a smile on her face, and she laughs louder then ever before. Looks like you're losing her.

Tue, 01 Nov 2011 01:11:10 -0400

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Mon, 31 Oct 2011 12:52:03 -0400

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Mon, 31 Oct 2011 12:41:34 -0400

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Mon, 31 Oct 2011 12:40:30 -0400

benclops: “The True Meaning of Sleeping Together” Nothing...

Thu, 27 Oct 2011 01:29:29 -0400

benclops:

“The True Meaning of Sleeping Together”

Nothing dirty. Nothing Naughty. Just sleeping. It’s just sleeping with that someone and knowing that they’re in your arms and you’re in theirs. They want to feel close to you. They want to know they are the closest to your heart. They want to hear you breathe when you fall asleep as they sleep next to you. As you fall asleep, you want to cuddle with that someone and just the hold them close. It’s that moment where you don’t want to let go and that moment where you don’t want them to forget that this is a special moment.

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Tue, 25 Oct 2011 12:15:29 -0400

Dear Girls Who Spread Rumors,

Tue, 25 Oct 2011 11:34:20 -0400

I’m glad you’re finally giving your legs a break.

Hi, Tumblr! I just want to let eveybody know, how much I love...

Mon, 24 Oct 2011 01:32:47 -0400

Hi, Tumblr! I just want to let eveybody know, how much I love this guy. Kahit ano pang tingin nila sayo, kahit ano pang itsure mo. I love you, from the bottom of my heart. I hope this last forever. You have my heart. Please take care of it. ♥